In relationships, I always viewed myself as the “cool girl.”  The girl with the go-with-the-flow attitude, that was easy to be with, laid back, “low maintenance,” understanding and undemanding. When I was in my early and mid twenties, it was my thing and I thought it w...

In the middle of a long rant describing how angry and frustrated she was feeling as a result of a not-so-recent breakup, a client interrupted herself and blurted out with exasperation in her voice, “how do you get over someone?!”  She had been struggling for several mo...